Kids and Manners!!! Possible?

Kids @#
Imposibleeeeeee
Sometimes, at public place, they makes us feel as we had'nt taught them manners at all.
And sometimes, as if they are more mannered then us.
Something like that also happen with me. (Pity on me)

At the cake shop,
We bought pastries (she love it)
When we finished (she was not finished), I suggested lets move, and spontaneously she interupted,

Jhota chod kar jayenge kya? (as if complaning)
App to bole the na the jhota nahi chodte?

I was shocked! everybody was listening to her.
I replied, car mein finish kar lena?
she replied angrily (as if saying apko itna bhi nahi pata),
chalte chalte khana achi baat hoti hai kya?

I thought it is better to let her finish.

Then she noticed the empty cup in my hand and said,
"Mammy kachra dustbin mein dalthe hain. Apka hai na jao dal kar aoo."
I stood up angrily thinking, thanks for teaching me manners.

When she was stuffed, (1/4 th pastry was left)
She said, " mammy bacche cake nahi khate".

Every body end up laughing.
And I can't resist sharing it with you.

Three year old now

Kids !!!
Oh god !!
At times Amazing,
Other moment interesting,
The very next moment , sooooo irritating ( so many questions, sometimes, so logical but difficult to answer)
And then, suddenly so lovely and talkative,
Great Charmer,
Time just flew away with them.

I don't know about all the kids.
I think every parents feel that their kids are angels but by the age of three,
They end up yelling and punishing them all the time.
For sure I also yell and punish her but some time and not all.
She is three now .
Of course, she make noise, naughty and once promised, it must be fulfilled.
May be this is the reason she cooperate, because she knew,
She will get great rewards.

Always reward your kids for their good,
And sometime, let them have what they want ( chocolates, toys, etc.) with a smile(and without saying no apparently).
You will see a lovely smile on your kid's face which you always want to capture for ever.
You will be so fulfilled and wish, the moment should stop to live it to the fullest.
you will definitely see the long term effect of it.
Believe me!!
I experimented it.
It really works.

Aaj Main Badi Ho Gayi

My little angel is Two year old now

She grew up in a cute, beautiful, intelligent , hard working, Loving and most important CARING.

You might be thinking what are the words I am using for her are too big for the age of her, but she deserve it.

CUTE - Because it is god gifted to her,

BEAUTIFUL - As I described,

INTELLIGENT - She is a fast learner, any thing once told will be saved in the memory bank with definition and process and any deviation from it will not be allowed. Then she will say -

बोली न इसको ऐसे नहीं करते हैं, मम्मी ने बोली थी, हांsssssssss

HARDWORKING - She like doing her work on her own, like putting her utensils to wash basins, cloths on place, shoes on place and also help me in my work as much as she can. When I say no, she replies,

"आज मैं बड़ी हो गयी" and if she is unable to do something, she comes to me and say

"मम्मी आप कर दो न मैं अभी छोटी हूँ|"

LOVING and CARING - While I do my work, she come to me and say, "मैं आपकी HELP करूं"

A small incidence took place

I was sleeping and she was playing, I slept without taking my blanket.

After 5 min she came and spread her blanket (Her blanket is very important to her because she can sleep without me but not her blanket) over me, without thinking what I wil have.

I was so touched, that how much she love and care for me that she has given me her most precious thing of life. And thought came to mind

"आज तू सच में बड़ी हो गई"

Replica of a Lotus

Lotus - a beautiful flower , whose habitat is mud and water, it grow in it, flourish in it. But still untouched by them. Don't allow single drop of them to stick on it.

Even the sweet fragnances of the rich Pink flower have no smell of Mud and water.

I feel my angel is like, "Replica of a Lotus"

Smiling with the freshness of morning dew,

Standing proudly as winner on the shoulders of the world which is like "MUD" which Smells bad, Looks bad, One who get into it will be pulled in by all the evils, who have control of it.

My Angel, looking down with giggle at the World saying -

"You have made everybody as bad as you are, but look at me, I took birth between you, but u can not even touch me."

My freshness, innocence and selfless love is like drop of Elixir (अमृत) of life to those who are

So tired of Life,

Lost hope of justice,

Unaware of the new birth of the rays of goodness.

This world is a beautiful place, trust me!

Always a single ray of hope have the power of shattering the darkness of shrewdness and selfishness .

So, don't lose hope.

I am within you, Look at me.

When I look at her, all my worries run away, and I feel that a my heart whisper in my ears,

Wow! She is so pure,

So gentle,

The velvety touch,

The sparkling eyes,

The smiling lips,

Ah! It seems she is holding your hand and taking you for a walk on the clouds in her country.

She says in her wordless speech,

Mom! Why are u looking at me surprisingly?

I am a part of you, came back, so you live you childhood once again in me,

I am taking you on the tour, how you were in your childhood,

I came in your world, so that you should not be lost in this mud,

Look at me, "I AM YOUR RAY OF HOPE"

Thankyou "GOD"

Every body was amazed by her beautifully carves Features. She is Pink in color, wide eyes, Little lips, round face, chubby checks, soft hairs, long hands with artistic fingers, beautiful long legs with a little but beautifully shaped toes and wonderful nails. Her feature assure that she is having a perfect figure.

Oh! She is extraordinarily attractive with slender body and perfect curves. I can imagine a young and beautiful women in front of me.

Is it a imagination or really I have a fairy in my hands?

She remind me of the cartoon fairy, I use to watch with full appreciation of her wide and innocent eyes with blue sea in it, But my angel have black clouds in her eyes which makes her look more deepen.

I am surprised, do every mother feels the same for her baby. I doubt, do I have appreciated my baby as much as I do now, if she would have been a boy?

My mom yelled at me, do not look at your baby like this, Your gaze will give her bad spell and make her sick.

Can it happen? Can a mothers gaze to her child with love cause a bad spell?

Old people say so, Maa ki nazar lag jati hai.

Please, but I can't stop admiring her.

Thankyou GOD for giving me a girl.

MY LITTLE ANGEL - My baby

The moment she was born, I was lying on the operation table, unable to feel anything, I was consious but my body was unconsious. Dont know what the doctors was doing. they were talking with me and i heard a sharp voice of crying. I was surprised, the baby took birth! I had a mixed feeling of surprise and happiness, dont know what to say. I didnt go through any pain, I have heard that a baby is like pure gold purified by the fire of lifethreatning pain and with the baby, mother take a rebirth. But i didnt felt anything, I thought do i will able to love her as much as other mothers love there child. I didnt asked the doctor whether its girl or boy because i knew, i have a baby girl. After an hour i saw her. She was a pink wax doll, round face, large eyes, sharp nose, little pink lips, long legs, hands with lonf fingers and long sharp nails as if she just got filled. I was amazed looking at her. I never saw a child as beaytiful as she was. I got a baby doll.