tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7862517759121786682024-03-04T20:00:26.918-08:00LoveFeeling or cluster of feelings?Deepti Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18066709555158654406noreply@blogger.comBlogger33125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-786251775912178668.post-42217100622207548542012-03-20T22:00:00.002-07:002012-03-20T22:15:06.575-07:00FEARNow a days i started feeling fear atsome corner of my heart all the time.<br />Life taught me enough that "One get what he deserve not less than that not more than that" this is the ultimate truth of life.<br />But we keep on fighting for betterment,<br />We keep on fighting to make life good,<br />To achieve all our dreams,<br />To accomplish what want,<br />But we reach there, there starts a "fear of losing"<br />Losing the loved ones,<br />Fear that anything can happens,<br />Each and every moment trying to get over it. <br />Now I realise how brave the womens are who sen their son or husband to war.<br />May be I am getting a little over protective.Deepti Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18066709555158654406noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-786251775912178668.post-55041875666099083302012-03-17T04:31:00.003-07:002012-03-17T04:39:37.451-07:00Q & HappinessSometimes I found a strong correlation between questions and Happiness.<br /><br />It feels like when there are clouds of sorrow there are so many questions.<br /><br />Where as when there is light of happiness everything seems perfect.<br /><br />No flaws, No worries, No tension.<br /><br />But occassionally light fades and again come the clouds of sorrow waiting for a ray <br />of hope to clear those clouds and bring in the light of happiness.<br /><br />This is Life.Deepti Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18066709555158654406noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-786251775912178668.post-35214983311927048152012-03-13T06:03:00.005-07:002012-03-13T06:27:41.610-07:00WANTS AND HAPPINESSSometimes I dont understand what is this all for?<br />Why we run all the time behind "MATERIAL THINGS"?<br />Why is this "Greed"?<br />OR why it is always that we have everything we need, but not what we want?<br />Even if that is not so big, may be just emotions, no money need to buy that.<br /><br />THEN?<br />Why always there is something which human complain?<br />Why we always lack something to make others happy?<br />Why we always complain even after others put all the efforts they can, to make us happy?<br />May be because we evaluate others from our eyes and others always do what they think is right rather than finding out what their loved ones want?<br />What make that person happy?<br /><br />The whole emotional drama is for happiness, <br />We put efforts everyday but remain unsuccessful.<br />I think te whole game is of <br />EMOTION<br />CARE<br />LOVE<br />BUT, all one gets is criticism for NOT being<br />EMOTIONAL<br />CARING <br />LOVING.<br />Is this true? if everyone carves for the same?<br />Questions are so much and answer are none.Deepti Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18066709555158654406noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-786251775912178668.post-58380217465878864972011-10-16T04:17:00.000-07:002011-10-16T04:19:54.508-07:00It HappensToday i am feeling SAD, Upset, angry and .......I dont know...<br />My kido and hubby is asking what happen to you.....Did we did something to make u angry?<br />No! Then Why am I Upset? I dont know!!!<br />Am I angry on someone?<br />Am I annoyed of someone?<br />Am I Upset of something?<br />I want answere........<br />I am feeling horrible, restless, as if, I did something wrong!<br />As if, I betrayed someone!<br /> As if I left someone behind! Whom I should be with!!!<br />Actually Breathless.......<br />Why? I don't know<br />It is late night, rainy outside and dark in my heart....<br />The best place I felt at this time is near window........<br />Generally, I don't open that window, a nice sitting place is there.....<br />Cold wind touched my skin and I felt as if it touched me within, slowly-slowly it reached my heart, embraced it, which was feeling dark.<br />And all of sudden it lighten up.<br />I closed my eyes and felt as if, I am flying in wind and met the lost friend...<br />Yes, I realised, the one I betrayed is "me".<br />The one who always helped me to perform my duties as mother, wife, friend, professional and many more characters, I forgot her.....<br />In performing my duties I just keep on expecting form her and gave her nothing in return.<br />Today, when she got tired and sick...I cant do a single thing...<br />I am nothing without her......and I forgot her?<br />But now onwards.....I will do my best to keep her happy, cheer her up, do things she like...and always hold her hand where ever I go....I will stop if she is tired....<br />Today I commit to Myself as well.Deepti Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18066709555158654406noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-786251775912178668.post-387245894891503542011-01-08T08:24:00.000-08:002011-01-08T08:54:53.563-08:00"SUICIDE" Act of a weak moment.Today, I got a bad news.<br /><br />Suicide of a person with his daughter, whom i knew.<br />This is a shaking news.<br /><br />What have had happened to him,<br />which made him took such hard step,<br />Harder, taking his daughter with him?<br />Should I address him as a killer or a weak father.<br /><br />It take a moment to end a life <br /><br />"Suicide", Act of a weak moment.<br />A moment when a person think, that his world came to an end,<br />When he don't have the courage to live with the current situations,<br />When he thinks, that for his loved ones material things are more important than him,<br />When he think there is no one, who love him, no one who bother for him,<br /><br />May be this is the strongest reason of all, which act as a catalyst in a weak moment, to take the hardest decision.<br />Because every human being want to be loved and cared by our loved ones.<br /><br />What a tragedy of life that, a person's world consist of few peoples, and at times, it become so difficult to get loved by those people.<br /><br />Is this can be solution of all problems?<br /><br />I think, a person do such kind of thing when he/she lost his thinking power.<br /><br />I pray to God, even at worse situation nobody could lose his/her thinking capacity.Deepti Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18066709555158654406noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-786251775912178668.post-12915958566775511572011-01-06T23:11:00.000-08:002011-01-06T23:44:42.021-08:00BEAUTY!!! WHAT IS IT?As a grown up it is so easy to define.<br />But still to everybody it has different meaning.<br />some people think good looks is beauty,<br />for some beauty is fair color and long hairs,<br />for some beauty is being attractive even without sharp features or fair color,<br />for some, it is attitude.<br /><br />But what a kid think of a beauty?<br /><br />When i was a kid, and some one claim, she is beautiful.<br />I use to stare that girl and try to find out, what is beauty?<br />she also have two eyea, one nose, two ears etc.<br />What is so diffrent, to be beautiful?<br />i use to ask everybody what does beautiful means.<br /><br />even now some times i dont understand, What does beauty mean to a particular person.<br /><br />But i think it is more depend on liking to someone, their nature, their behavior to others, their attitude to carry themselves etc.<br />Does good looks, fair color and slim figure is beauty?<br /><br />Oh god!!!!!!!!!<br /><br />Still it is difficult to answer.<br /><br />Can anyone help me????????Deepti Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18066709555158654406noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-786251775912178668.post-84001426013577526992010-12-24T08:42:00.000-08:002010-12-24T09:10:31.195-08:00Bribe or WarnigIt use to be normal practice of parents to either Bribe their children or warn them to do or not do something.<br /><br />Hey!!!! I am not complaning.<br /><br />I had always observed parents, to avoid the hazzels at particular time, they agree to what ever kids say be it choclate, toys etc. Is it right?<br /><br />After sometime parents start complaing that kids don't listen to us.<br />Tell me who is reponsible for that.<br /><br />A 3 month kid starts understanding things.<br /><br />Initially, parents think they are young and understand with time, But kids start understanding how they can make parents do what they want and so is the result.<br /><br />Instead we can understand what is the kids passion and use that as a tool.<br /><br />so they will feel special instead of dejected, and also ur work go on. <br /><br />I do the same but diffrently.<br /><br />My kido love the song Azeemo shan sehansha.<br />She say it "chemo shan sehensha" and crazy for it (thanks to all the people.<br />I dont need to bribe her for choclates instead for the song that, <br />" if u obey me i will play the song",<br />" and if i need to warn, I will not play it"<br />Smart na.<br /><br />And second colors <br /><br />ya, that's correct, she loves coloring. so the second bribe is color book and colors.<br /><br />So u must be thinking, "what a lucky mom!"Deepti Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18066709555158654406noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-786251775912178668.post-31897691750945123432010-09-29T11:24:00.000-07:002010-09-29T11:28:12.391-07:00Kids and Manners!!! Possible?Kids @#<br />Imposibleeeeeee <br />Sometimes, at public place, they makes us feel as we had'nt taught them manners at all.<br />And sometimes, as if they are more mannered then us.<br />Something like that also happen with me. (Pity on me)<br /><br />At the cake shop,<br />We bought pastries (she love it)<br />When we finished (she was not finished), I suggested lets move, and spontaneously she interupted,<br /><br />Jhota chod kar jayenge kya? (as if complaning)<br />App to bole the na the jhota nahi chodte?<br /><br />I was shocked! everybody was listening to her.<br />I replied, car mein finish kar lena?<br />she replied angrily (as if saying apko itna bhi nahi pata),<br /> chalte chalte khana achi baat hoti hai kya?<br /><br />I thought it is better to let her finish.<br /><br />Then she noticed the empty cup in my hand and said,<br />"Mammy kachra dustbin mein dalthe hain. Apka hai na jao dal kar aoo."<br />I stood up angrily thinking, thanks for teaching me manners.<br /><br />When she was stuffed, (1/4 th pastry was left)<br />She said, " mammy bacche cake nahi khate".<br /><br />Every body end up laughing.<br />And I can't resist sharing it with you.Deepti Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18066709555158654406noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-786251775912178668.post-75760450231041592010-07-26T01:38:00.000-07:002010-07-26T01:39:55.129-07:00Three year old nowKids !!!<br />Oh god !!<br />At times Amazing, <br />Other moment interesting,<br />The very next moment , sooooo irritating ( so many questions, sometimes, so logical but difficult to answer)<br />And then, suddenly so lovely and talkative, <br />Great Charmer,<br />Time just flew away with them.<br /><br />I don't know about all the kids.<br />I think every parents feel that their kids are angels but by the age of three,<br />They end up yelling and punishing them all the time.<br />For sure I also yell and punish her but some time and not all.<br /> She is three now .<br />Of course, she make noise, naughty and once promised, it must be fulfilled.<br />May be this is the reason she cooperate, because she knew,<br />She will get great rewards.<br /><br />Always reward your kids for their good,<br />And sometime, let them have what they want ( chocolates, toys, etc.) with a smile(and without saying no apparently). <br />You will see a lovely smile on your kid's face which you always want to capture for ever.<br />You will be so fulfilled and wish, the moment should stop to live it to the fullest.<br />you will definitely see the long term effect of it.<br />Believe me!!<br />I experimented it.<br />It really works.Deepti Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18066709555158654406noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-786251775912178668.post-56940109552800124032010-07-09T03:12:00.000-07:002010-07-09T03:14:36.504-07:00That's all folkDid these words remind you of something?Think!!!<br />Oh no, you can't forget @#<br />Try once again.<br />Got it !<br />Ofcourse,<br />Tom and Jerry<br />Mickey mouse <br />Donald duck and so many.<br /><br />Do remember watching all those cartoons which make no sense but still fun.<br />How about trying it now.<br /><br />Just forget about the inflation and see tom running behind jerry.<br />Just forget what BCCI and Modi are doing and see how brave choota bheem is.<br />Just forget the project report to be finished, and watch Balganesha.<br /><br />These day were there are always deadline, meetings and project reports.<br />Got tired of it na.<br />Get a escape for sometime and watch cartoons.<br /><br />You will be in the new world which says "THAT'S ALL FOLKS".Deepti Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18066709555158654406noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-786251775912178668.post-34779158642845244292010-07-04T23:51:00.001-07:002010-07-04T23:51:58.580-07:00Who is Strong?I wonder why this society give preference to man.<br />His Dreams (what ever it is)<br />His feelings (Even is does no justice to others)<br />His thinking ( Even if it is incorrect)<br />But he is the leader, the only reason because he is strong.<br />" STRONG" - Really?<br />Does it mean emotional strength too?<br />I don't think so.<br />Because emotionally they are not as strong as a women.<br />Every time they need someone around them to share there problem and tensions. <br />Unlike a women who deals with her part of problems on her own and still ready to share the problems of the male community as much as she can, be, he is her father, brother, husband or a friend.<br />At the same time when she need their support, the same male community raise finger on her. <br />If she weakens on one of her duties, she get the sentence of incapable of fullfilling the responsibilities.<br />In most of cases a man so easily moves for another lady support.<br />Again he can't survive without support than how is he strong.<br />It is well said, " Behind every successful man there is a Women".<br />Also behind every successful women there is a man but in a negative way.Deepti Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18066709555158654406noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-786251775912178668.post-66006897834139216642010-06-24T19:32:00.000-07:002010-06-24T19:35:17.646-07:00KARMA CHAKRAEvery religion speaks the same thing <br />Rewards or sufferings are the result of our own karma chakra.<br /><br />I think it is true bcoz everybody's struggle, pain, suffering, rewards etc. are differrent from the other person, and karma Chakra can be the only reason for it. I don't think anything else can justify it.<br /><br />But I wonder how this circle started?<br /><br />Every religion and guru says about moksha as the ultimate goal of a soul. But I have another question, How a soul is formed? <br />When it got started?<br />How a soul got caught in the vicious circle of Karma Chakra?<br />What was the souls first act, when it steped in this circle?<br />Ultimate goal is moksha but, Where it came from?<br /><br />I wonder who taught this world about that?<br /><br />When I was a kid, I wonder how this earth formed?<br />Who were the firsts human being?<br />Although science answer that, but still there are some questions unanswered!!!<br /><br />This Karma chakra so vicious and complex. A chakraview<br />Like Abhimanu, we know how to get in, But we need to be like Arjun,<br />we have to learn to come out of it too.Deepti Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18066709555158654406noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-786251775912178668.post-39853006809449621992010-06-02T03:00:00.000-07:002010-06-02T03:23:35.323-07:00I am SorryToday after a long time I came to my best friends - Kagaz n Kalam.<br /><br />I know, both of you are angry at me.<br />I took a long break, but I am sorry, I was so busy.<br />But today I want to be with you again, because you are my true friends. <br />No body else understands me better than you do. Thanks and promise me to be with me always.<br /><br />U know I don’t have a specific thought today to talk about with you. <br />Instead, so many thoughts flowing in my mind which I am unable to line up. <br />I know, this is bcoz both of you are punishing me for being with you after a long time.<br /><br />Plz plz plz forgive me this time.<br />I can't forget how you have stand by me on my tough moment,<br />Promise me to be the same for ever.<br />Thank youDeepti Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18066709555158654406noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-786251775912178668.post-59352169831810941432010-03-09T23:40:00.000-08:002010-03-09T23:48:49.444-08:00Aim of Life<p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">Do you ever thought, <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#009900;">What is the aim of a person's life?</span></span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">Sometimes I wonder where are we heading ?</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">What we want?</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">What we want to achieve?</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#CC0000;">Confused!!! </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">You must be thinking what rubbish!!!</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">I know what I want. </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">May be true. </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#009900;">But did u ever gave a thought what next, ONCE your aim if fullfilled?</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">According to you the answer is simple,</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">Let me achieve this first and then I will think next.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">But wait a minute, give a thought to it………………..</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">What is aim of your life?</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"> </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">For an average Indian, education and a reputed job. </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">When that is achieved, what next?</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">For sometime a person get absorbed completely by his/her achievement.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">But after sometime, the person want something more to carve for, so got married.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">And now a completely new aim set, earn for family, make them happy.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">But this won't seem enough, then again there is silence in life which need a baby to be filled with and life goes on like that.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"> </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"> I remember an episode of Alladin (cartoon series by disney), Where Alladin and princess came across a captain who travel in a cruise in the air, searching for a whale who have treasure in its body . </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">With great effort, they catch her. But then the captain realize that, to catch the whale is aim of his life. So he release her again, to give his life reason to live for.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"> </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">In simple language, </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000099;">aim is the reason to live.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"> Someone have big and other small. </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">But everybody have one, which is a reason in the form of blood in the body of Life.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000099;">So, what is your Aim? Be it small but have one.</span></p>Deepti Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18066709555158654406noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-786251775912178668.post-79131136348307269192010-03-01T04:57:00.000-08:002010-03-01T05:03:38.299-08:00Vision of Life - Colors<p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">Today is </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#CC0000;">"Holi"</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">, the festival of </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#006600;">"colors".</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">So many colors. </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">White, </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000066;">blue</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">, </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#009900;">green</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">, </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF6600;">orange</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">, </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FFCC00;">yellow</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">, purple, </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF0000;">RED!!!</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">But do you ever thought of what are the meanings of colors in a person's life!!!</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">Lets take the color </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF0000;">RED</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"> it is symbol of</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF0000;">Love</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF0000;">Passion</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-size:11.0pt"><span style="font-family:Calibri" lang="en-US"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF0000;">Marriage (</span></span><span style="font-family: Mangal; " lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF0000;">सुहाग</span></span><span style="font-family:Calibri" lang="en-US"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF0000;">)</span></span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">On the other way, it is also symbol of</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF0000;">Anger</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF0000;">Blood </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF0000;">Danger</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF0000;">Destruction</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">The color is one but vision is different.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000066;">Life's personal experience is what, which create vision of life</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"> ,</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">Every thing has two phase constructive of distructive.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">Nobody is self responsible for its vision, there are situations, surroundings, family and …..</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000066;">We can just hope that every one should have the constructive vision of life with lots of colors. </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"> </span></p> <p style="margin-top: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-bottom: 0in; margin-left: 0in; font-family: Tahoma; font-size: 8pt; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"> </span></p>Deepti Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18066709555158654406noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-786251775912178668.post-17154372485286190822010-02-17T05:34:00.000-08:002010-02-17T05:36:59.829-08:00Everything Happens for Good<p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt">I have always been a firm believer of <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000099;">EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR GOOD.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"> </p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt">And from time to time fate proved me correct. </p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt">I think in everybody's life it happens, </p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"> </p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt">what is required is vision to see that, <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000099;">the glass is half full and not half empty.</span> Person who see glass is half full can always learn from what happened and move on. And the person who only<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>see glass as half empty always stick up in a place and can not fight for the betterment.</p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"> </p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt">I know so many people argue how can this happen?<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>If u fell down in a pathway, then how can it is good. But it is good. Because you learn keep your eyes on the pathway also so that you should not fell down from where u can not come out. One suffering always make u cautious of another , also make u brave to be prepared if u miss it.</p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"> </p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt">If someone betrayed your trust, then also it is your fault, because u don't know whom to trust and whom not, Learn from it.</p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"> </p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt">Learn whom you should trust and whom u should rely. </p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"> </p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt">Don't give anybody next, the chance to betray you. So the glass is half full.</p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"> </p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt">Always there is a way out for everything. Just keep your eyes open and the door will open.</p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"> </p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt">Learn from your mistakes and move on. It is Life</p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"> </p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000099;">It is a personal experience.</span></p>Deepti Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18066709555158654406noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-786251775912178668.post-74719418419643597792009-12-02T00:59:00.000-08:002009-12-09T02:13:20.489-08:00The game of name - Pleasing<span style="color:#993399;"><br /><br />In the Marathon of Name, the <span style="color:#3333ff;">torch of Pleasing</span> is in the Hand.<br />A person, always trying to please eveybody around,<br />Try to be great by sacrificing his own happiness for the well being of other <span style="color:#ff0000;">(Ridiculous),</span><br />Try to be superior by caring for other<span style="color:#ff0000;">(Foolishness),</span><br />Try to be weight lifter by shouldering the burden of others<span style="color:#ff0000;">(Rubbish).</span><br />But pleasing is like <span style="color:#ff0000;">Whitewashing a house</span>.<br />Untill you keep doing things what others like, people <span style="color:#ff0000;">forget</span> how much you <span style="color:#ff0000;">sacrifice</span> for them.<br />Like after a while there is a layer of dust settled at the wall, which again needs white washing.<br />It means in order to please others keep on putting the <span style="color:#ff0000;">oil of sacrifices</span> in the torch of Pleasing.<br /><span style="color:#3333ff;">But in this Marathon, nobody ever won, sooner or later</span>,<br />The participant is left tired in the Midway,<br />In complete darkness because the oil of the torch is exhausted completely,<br />In the utter suffering of loneliness and meanness of the peoples,<br />And the most amazing fact is that, peoples are those whom a person thinks are my whole world<br />At the end, a person combeled to think, <span style="color:#3333ff;">"why I did all that?"</span><br />I read somewhere </span><span style="color:#3333ff;">" It is good to earn a bad name and live a good life than earn a good name and live a Bad life"</span><br /><span style="color:#3333ff;">True na!!!</span>Deepti Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18066709555158654406noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-786251775912178668.post-80572043783848830612009-11-08T19:46:00.000-08:002009-11-08T20:18:31.416-08:00Aaj Main Badi Ho Gayi<p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;">My little angel is Two year old now</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;">She grew up in a cute, beautiful, intelligent , hard working, Loving and most important CARING.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;">You might be thinking what are the words I am using for her are too big for the age of her, but she deserve it.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;">CUTE</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;"> - Because it is god gifted to her,</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;">BEAUTIFUL </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;">- As I described,</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;">INTELLIGENT</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;"> - She is a fast learner, any thing once told will be saved in the memory bank with definition and process and any deviation from it will not be allowed. Then she will say -</span></p> <p style="margin:0in"><span style=" ;font-family:Mangal;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;">बोली</span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Arial;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;"> </span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Mangal;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;">न</span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Arial;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;"> </span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Mangal;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;">इसको</span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Arial;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;"> </span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Mangal;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;">ऐसे</span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Arial;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;"> </span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Mangal;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;">नहीं</span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Arial;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;"> </span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Mangal;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;">करते</span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Arial;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;"> </span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Mangal;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;">हैं</span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Arial;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="en-US"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;">, </span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Mangal;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;">मम्मी</span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Arial;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;"> </span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Mangal;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;">ने</span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Arial;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;"> </span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Mangal;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;">बोली</span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Arial;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;"> </span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Mangal;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;">थी</span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Arial;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="en-US"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;">, </span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Mangal;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;">हां</span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Arial;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="en-US"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;">sssssssss</span></span><span lang="en-US" style="font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;"> </span></span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;">HARDWORKING</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;"> - She like doing her work on her own, like putting her utensils to wash basins, cloths on place, shoes on place and also help me in my work as much as she can. When I say no, she replies,</span></p> <p style="margin:0in"><span style=" ;font-family:Calibri;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="en-US"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;">"</span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Mangal;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;">आज</span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Arial;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;"> </span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Mangal;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;">मैं</span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Arial;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;"> </span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Mangal;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;">बड़ी</span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Arial;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;"> </span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Mangal;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;">हो</span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Arial;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;"> </span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Mangal;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;">गयी</span></span><span lang="en-US" style=" ;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;">" and if she is unable to do something, she comes to me and say</span></span></p> <p style="margin:0in"><span lang="en-US" style="font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;"> "</span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Mangal;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;">मम्मी</span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Arial;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;"> </span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Mangal;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;">आप</span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Arial;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;"> </span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Mangal;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;">कर</span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Arial;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;"> </span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Mangal;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;">दो</span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Arial;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;"> </span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Mangal;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;">न</span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Arial;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;"> </span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Mangal;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;">मैं</span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Arial;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;"> </span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Mangal;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;">अभी</span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Arial;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;"> </span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Mangal;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;">छोटी</span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Arial;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;"> </span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Mangal;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;">हूँ</span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Arial;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="en-US"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;">|"</span></span><span lang="en-US" style="font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;"> </span></span></p> <p style="margin:0in"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:Calibri;color:#993300;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: -webkit-xxx-large;"><br /></span></span></p><p style="margin:0in"><span lang="en-US" style="font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;">LOVING and CARING</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;"> - While I do my work, she come to me and say, "</span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Mangal;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;">मैं</span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Arial;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;"> </span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Mangal;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;">आपकी</span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Arial;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;"> </span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Arial;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="en-US"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;">HELP</span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Arial;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;"> </span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Mangal;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;">करूं</span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Arial;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="en-US"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;">"</span></span><span lang="hi" style=" ;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;"> </span></span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;"> A small incidence took place</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;">I was sleeping and she was playing, I slept without taking my blanket.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;">After 5 min she came and spread her blanket (Her blanket is very important to her because she can sleep without me but not her blanket) over me, without thinking what I wil have.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;">I was so touched, that how much she love and care for me that she has given me her most precious thing of life. And thought came to mind</span></p> <p style="margin:0in"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:Arial;color:#003300;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: -webkit-xxx-large;"><br /></span></span></p><p style="margin:0in"><span lang="en-US" style="font-family:Arial;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#003300;">"</span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Mangal;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#003300;">आज</span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Arial;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#003300;"> </span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Mangal;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#003300;">तू</span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Arial;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#003300;"> </span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Mangal;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#003300;">सच</span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Arial;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#003300;"> </span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Mangal;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#003300;">में</span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Arial;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#003300;"> </span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Mangal;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#003300;">बड़ी</span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Arial;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#003300;"> </span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Mangal;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#003300;">हो</span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Arial;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#003300;"> </span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Mangal;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#003300;">गई</span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Arial;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="en-US"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#003300;">"</span></span><span lang="hi" style=" ;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"> </span></p>Deepti Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18066709555158654406noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-786251775912178668.post-69250368096887151402009-11-07T10:24:00.000-08:002009-11-07T10:29:03.991-08:00Naam - Ek Pehchan ya???????<p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"> </span></p> <p style="margin:0in"><span style="font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt" lang="en-US"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">Some one said , </span></span><span style="font-family: Mangal; font-size: 10.5pt; " lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#660000;">नाम</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10.5pt; " lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#660000;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Mangal; font-size: 10.5pt; " lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#660000;">में</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10.5pt; " lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#660000;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Mangal; font-size: 10.5pt; " lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#660000;">क्या</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10.5pt; " lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#660000;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Mangal; font-size: 10.5pt; " lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#660000;">रखा</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10.5pt; " lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#660000;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Mangal; font-size: 10.5pt; " lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#660000;">है</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10.5pt; " lang="en-US"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#660000;">?</span></span><span style="font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt" lang="en-US"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"> </span></span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">And instantly the thought came to my mind is, </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF0000;">"</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF0000;">Everything".</span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF0000;"><br /></span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">Do you ever thought what is the impact of name in someone's personality and Life?</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153); ">I think like few things which are decided by God and not we, name is also one among that.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">Slowly person's thinking, behavior, character bear the characterstics of it name.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">"NAME" - which create an instant picture of a person in stranger's mind.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">A picture which is very much inspired by the characterstics of the name of the person.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">At times it is positive and at times negative.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">It help to give person, a beginning.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">And good beginning leads to work half done.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">The whole run in the world is for name sake.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">A person can fulfill his necessity easily but, he keep on running to establish his name in the society. </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">This marathon race does not ends with the establishment of the name.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">The next stage is to add fame with the name.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">And then to maintain it to the height.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">The passion for the fame make a man blind and deaf, that neither he can see the pain nor listen to the heart of those who are supporting him in this endless marathon race.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">Sometimes I wonder - WHY? THIS ENDLESS AND HOPELESS MARATHON.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">Why a person cant stop bothering about his name and society, instead think about the happiness of the near and dear one. Don't ask them to sacrifice their wishes for name sake.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">Imagine - How beautiful this world will be without the NAME factor. </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000099;">But it can't happen because NAME is EVERYHTING</span></p>Deepti Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18066709555158654406noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-786251775912178668.post-54840567517374920792009-10-27T11:20:00.000-07:002009-10-28T04:32:33.425-07:00Are You Newly Engaged?<p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#CC33CC;">Surprised? Why this lady always have Quesiton?</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">Because Life is a search for answer of Questions, So many questions.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">So, here comes the next.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">Actually right now there are newly engaged couples around me.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">Living in the clouds of dreams,</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">So happy, </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">So much in Love, </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">It seems as if made for each other,</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">Can see only good things.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">As if , were waiting for so many births to meet each other.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF0000;">LOVE IS ON AIR</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">Have you ever thought, why the heart felt that way after engagement?</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">The Heart, which always waiting for true love, all of sudden feel like the search is over, as if the picture of the beloved is complete now.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">Heart, which is like a "wild horse", unable to control, free, strong, want to wander as per his own will, whom more you want to control, more it will rebel.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">Heart, whose nature is rebeltion, When there use to be restriction, that time also it can't be controlled, then, think what happen when the wild horse is free.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">God!!!</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">It will get crazzzzy with happiness,</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">Run in any direction without restriction,</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">Will talk with air and clouds, unable to land on Earth.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">Keep on running till unable to give sufficient air to the lungs.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">It is same with the Heart.</span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">But hold on!</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">Don't let it run till its last breath, otherwise Life and marriage will lose its charm.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">Let it pick up speed, but with steadiness, so the horse can run long race and not a short one.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000099;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000099;">Keep mind open with heart because heart won't have mind.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000099;">ALL THE BEST.</span></p>Deepti Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18066709555158654406noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-786251775912178668.post-82207667356919038852009-10-25T02:38:00.000-07:002009-10-25T02:47:22.722-07:00Daughter a things associated with Name and Fame?<p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">In Indian society, we always watch the same scene as in the serial -<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;">"12/24 Karol Bagh"</span></span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">Daughter ready to sacrifice , actually not ready instead she scarifies her feelings, emotions and happiness for the sake of family, which she thinks is her duty because they gave birth to her, bring her up and so she owe them, Do the boy thinks the same?</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">Since childhood, Parents put in her mind that, </span></p> <p style="margin:0in"><span style="font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt" lang="en-US"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">" WE LOVE YOU SO MUCH"</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;">(</span></span><span style="font-family: Mangal; font-size: 10.5pt; " lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;">शायद</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10.5pt; " lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Mangal; font-size: 10.5pt; " lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;">सच</span></span><span style="font-family: Calibri;font-size:11.0pt" lang="en-US"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;">)</span></span></p> <p style="margin:0in"><span style="font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt" lang="en-US"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">You are the replica of godess <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;">(most of the case "Laxmi"- </span></span></span><span style="font-family: Mangal; font-size: 10.5pt; " lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;">यहाँ</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10.5pt; " lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Mangal; font-size: 10.5pt; " lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;">भी</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10.5pt; " lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Mangal; font-size: 10.5pt; " lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;">स्वार्थ</span></span><span style="font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt" lang="en-US"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;">!!!)</span></span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">Its only your happiness which we are concerned about and nothing else is important in our life. <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;">(Really?)</span> </span></p> <p style="margin:0in"><span style="font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt" lang="en-US"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">But we request you one thing, please never do any such thing which will be a dark spot in our name and fame. </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;">(</span></span><span style="font-family: Mangal; font-size: 10.5pt; " lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;">अब</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10.5pt; " lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Mangal; font-size: 10.5pt; " lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;">आया</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10.5pt; " lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Mangal; font-size: 10.5pt; " lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;">ऊँठ</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10.5pt; " lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Mangal; font-size: 10.5pt; " lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;">पहाड़</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10.5pt; " lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Mangal; font-size: 10.5pt; " lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;">के</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10.5pt; " lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Mangal; font-size: 10.5pt; " lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;">नीचे</span></span><span style="font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt" lang="en-US"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;">)</span><br /> Otherwise we will die. </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;">(</span> </span><span style="font-family: Mangal; font-size: 10.5pt; " lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;">अहसानों</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10.5pt; " lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Mangal; font-size: 10.5pt; " lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;">के</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10.5pt; " lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Mangal; font-size: 10.5pt; " lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;">नीचे</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10.5pt; " lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Mangal; font-size: 10.5pt; " lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;">दब</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10.5pt; " lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Mangal; font-size: 10.5pt; " lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;">गयी</span></span><span style="font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Mangal; font-size: 10.5pt; " lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;">बेचारी</span></span><span style="font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt" lang="en-US"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;">)</span></span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">If anything happen which is against families name and fame, What about your younger brother and sister future? </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;">(emotional Blackmailing)</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">And it really works. The daughter shoulder the burden of carrying name and fame of the family.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">But I never understood, whether parents are worried about their daughters Life and Happiness or their prestige. Because if they care for daughters wishes then never ask her to give sacrifices, and if they concern about their prestige ask them to sacrifice their daughter's life then </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#CC0000;">where is the LOVE?</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993300;">GOD!!! What parents really want?</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">May be the return to give life her life, bringing her up, educating her and then marrying her. </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">There is one more question in my mind, If everything is given by them, what about the Karma chakra which says everyone gets everything because of its own fate?</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000099;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000099;">I think parents must think once again what they have given to their daughter and in return what they are asking for, at the same time compare it with a boy' s thinking and what they put in his mind.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"> </span></p>Deepti Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18066709555158654406noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-786251775912178668.post-21428943234763978872009-10-24T00:48:00.000-07:002009-10-24T00:53:16.206-07:00Everything Happens for Good<p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">I have always been a firm believer of EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR GOOD.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"> </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">And from time to time fate proved me correct. </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">I think in everybody's life it happens, </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"> </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">what is required is vision to see the glass is half full and not half empty. Person who see glass is half full can always learn from what happened and move on. And the person who only see glass as half empty always stick up in a place and can not fight for the betterment.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"> </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">I know so many people argue how can this happen? If u fell down in a pathway, then how can it is good. But it is good. Because you learn keep your eyes on the pathway also so that you should not fell down from where u can not come out. One suffering always make u cautious of another , also make u brave to be prepared if u miss it.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"> </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">If someone betrayed your trust, then also it is your fault, because u don't know whom to trust and whom not, Learn from it, </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"> </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">Learn whom you should trust and whom u should rely. </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"> </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">Don't give anybody next, the chance to betray you. So the glass is half full.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"> </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">Always there is a way out for everything. Just keep your eyes open and the door is open.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"> </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">Learn from your mistakes and move on</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"> </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333399;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333399;">It is a personal experience.</span></p>Deepti Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18066709555158654406noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-786251775912178668.post-70732172969393327232009-10-18T02:05:00.000-07:002009-10-18T02:08:37.398-07:00Best Friend<p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">Friendship, the most beautiful relationship between two person,</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"> without the competition of give and take. </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">Without the feeling of mine,</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">Without the smell of meanness,</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">Without the touch of shrewdness.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">Without the intention of return.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"> </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">Everybody wants, there should be a person in Life,</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">Whose name comes first in the mind when u need someone.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">Who is the person you can rely blindly</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">Whom you feel is the one who understand your feelings as they are,</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">Who have faith on you, that you are right,</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">Who won't question your intention because he know you well,</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">In front of whom you won't hesitate to speak your heart.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">With whom you want to share each and every thing happened be it happiness or sorrow.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">Who believe in you.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"> </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">A person who raise his hand for help without thinking for a moment that what will be the result</span></p> <p style="margin:0in"><span lang="en-US" style="font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"> When you are in a Quagmire(</span></span><span style=" ;font-family:Mangal;font-size:10.5pt;" lang="hi"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">दलदल</span></span><span lang="en-US" style="font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">), he will give his hand for help knowing that my hand will get dirty and my cloths will get spotted with the mud. Even this quagmire can take him in it.</span></span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"> </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"> The quagmire of situations, emotions and conditions, which is worse than the quagmire of sand.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"> because the quagmire of sand will take life in one instance but this one will won't let the person die but keep on suffer.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"> </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">The only person who can do this is the BEST FRIEND.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"> </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">Think do you have such person in Life???</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"> </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000099;">Thank God I have One.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"> </span></p>Deepti Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18066709555158654406noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-786251775912178668.post-90755367416993913482009-10-18T02:04:00.000-07:002009-10-20T04:17:02.543-07:00Treasure of Inspiration pass on<p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">After I cleared First level of my studied, I was 18.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">My achievement was not a very great one, but it was after great difficulties, because I belong to a orthodox joint family where girls are associated more with name and fame than considering them as living being. So my victory was great, </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"> </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">Then there was a meeting of Lions club , where they asked me how I managed to do that?</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"> </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">I asked my father to answer because he was the one who pass on the treasure of words and inspiration to me which was given to him by my grandfather, when he was pursuing his exam. He was having tears in his eyes .</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"> </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">He felt, in any case I will not be through this exam. I thought the same when I was preparing for my exams. My father wrote me a letter which say -</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"> </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">Dear,</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"> We bless you for your success,</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"> you know I was in same trauma when I was with my traning as you are now. When people love us so much and rely on us, so much, we feel the fear of putting them down. We feel can we will prove them correct? But this is the moment where you have to work hard and not think about the result. Give your 100% and for rest, god is there. This is what my father said to me when I was in my tranning because I felt I can't do it. </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"> </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">Just put your efforts and forget the result, even if you will flunck you will taste the failure which will enhance the taste of success and the urge to achieve it. Thus you are at no loss, only profit.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">Both the sides of the coin, you are the winner.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"> </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">And I know you will win. </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">With love</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">Your father</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;"> </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000099;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000099;">And believe I WON</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#993399;">.</span></p>Deepti Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18066709555158654406noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-786251775912178668.post-85643354273223416932009-10-08T11:57:00.000-07:002009-10-08T12:07:37.198-07:00Relationship - Marriage<p style="margin-top: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-bottom: 0in; margin-left: 0in; font-size:8.25pt;"><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000099;">"Marriage or relationship is a dance in which two lives go with the rhythm in full swing, holding each other with passion, caring each other with love. Unknowingly matching the foot steps of each other, without hurting. So much engrosed in each other that the rest of the world get stagnant for them"</span></span></i></p> <p style="margin-top: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-bottom: 0in; margin-left: 0in; font-size:8.25pt;"><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000099;"> </span></span></i></p> <p style="margin-top: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-bottom: 0in; margin-left: 0in; font-size:8.25pt;"><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000099;">Wow!!! Marriage is so beautiful with Love</span></span></i></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><br /></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">Love and Marriage.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"> </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">When they compliment each other, Life is as fresh as the morning dew.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">When both of them walk hand in hand they get unite and become the "great wall" which stand still and strong infront of the world, All the problems and difficulties get tired of them and step back with faliur. </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">Together they are so strong and elastic. Can expand, shrink, hard, soft, rough and velvety, everything.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"> </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">Every couple, about to enter into this relationship or those who are new in it think like this.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"> </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">Wait a minute, but what is the reality?????</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"> </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">Is it that beautiful as the un experienced persons think ???</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"> </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">The answer is simple "No".</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"> </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">Marriage is not only a sweet dish, instead a complete meal, </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">Where there are so many dishes like so many people to affect the couple's life, </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">With so many tastes like so many situations to test with,</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">With so many pickles and chutneys like feelings and emotions to enhance its flavors.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"> </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">Love is dream land which talks only about two people in Love.</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"> </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">Where as, Marriage is the Land of reality which say Love is not everything, it is a basic ingredient of the dish of LIFE, It need the help of others flavors also, like</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"> </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">Trust, </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">Companionship,</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">Friendship,</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">Caring , </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">Importance,</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">Support, </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">Mutual understanding,</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">Help</span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">And one of the most important thing is keeping the ego out of it (actually here roots of the problem lies)</span></p> <p face="Calibri" size="11.0pt" style="margin:0in;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"> </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#663366;">Trust me!!! </span></p> <p style="margin:0in;font-family:Calibri;font-size:11.0pt"> </p>Deepti Jainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18066709555158654406noreply@blogger.com0