FEAR

Now a days i started feeling fear atsome corner of my heart all the time.
Life taught me enough that "One get what he deserve not less than that not more than that" this is the ultimate truth of life.
But we keep on fighting for betterment,
We keep on fighting to make life good,
To achieve all our dreams,
To accomplish what want,
But we reach there, there starts a "fear of losing"
Losing the loved ones,
Fear that anything can happens,
Each and every moment trying to get over it.
Now I realise how brave the womens are who sen their son or husband to war.
May be I am getting a little over protective.

Q & Happiness

Sometimes I found a strong correlation between questions and Happiness.

It feels like when there are clouds of sorrow there are so many questions.

Where as when there is light of happiness everything seems perfect.

No flaws, No worries, No tension.

But occassionally light fades and again come the clouds of sorrow waiting for a ray
of hope to clear those clouds and bring in the light of happiness.

This is Life.

WANTS AND HAPPINESS

Sometimes I dont understand what is this all for?
Why we run all the time behind "MATERIAL THINGS"?
Why is this "Greed"?
OR why it is always that we have everything we need, but not what we want?
Even if that is not so big, may be just emotions, no money need to buy that.

THEN?
Why always there is something which human complain?
Why we always lack something to make others happy?
Why we always complain even after others put all the efforts they can, to make us happy?
May be because we evaluate others from our eyes and others always do what they think is right rather than finding out what their loved ones want?
What make that person happy?

The whole emotional drama is for happiness,
We put efforts everyday but remain unsuccessful.
I think te whole game is of
EMOTION
CARE
LOVE
BUT, all one gets is criticism for NOT being
EMOTIONAL
CARING
LOVING.
Is this true? if everyone carves for the same?
Questions are so much and answer are none.

"SUICIDE" Act of a weak moment.

Today, I got a bad news.

Suicide of a person with his daughter, whom i knew.
This is a shaking news.

What have had happened to him,
which made him took such hard step,
Harder, taking his daughter with him?
Should I address him as a killer or a weak father.

It take a moment to end a life

"Suicide", Act of a weak moment.
A moment when a person think, that his world came to an end,
When he don't have the courage to live with the current situations,
When he thinks, that for his loved ones material things are more important than him,
When he think there is no one, who love him, no one who bother for him,

May be this is the strongest reason of all, which act as a catalyst in a weak moment, to take the hardest decision.
Because every human being want to be loved and cared by our loved ones.

What a tragedy of life that, a person's world consist of few peoples, and at times, it become so difficult to get loved by those people.

Is this can be solution of all problems?

I think, a person do such kind of thing when he/she lost his thinking power.

I pray to God, even at worse situation nobody could lose his/her thinking capacity.

Who is Strong?

I wonder why this society give preference to man.
His Dreams (what ever it is)
His feelings (Even is does no justice to others)
His thinking ( Even if it is incorrect)
But he is the leader, the only reason because he is strong.
" STRONG" - Really?
Does it mean emotional strength too?
I don't think so.
Because emotionally they are not as strong as a women.
Every time they need someone around them to share there problem and tensions.
Unlike a women who deals with her part of problems on her own and still ready to share the problems of the male community as much as she can, be, he is her father, brother, husband or a friend.
At the same time when she need their support, the same male community raise finger on her.
If she weakens on one of her duties, she get the sentence of incapable of fullfilling the responsibilities.
In most of cases a man so easily moves for another lady support.
Again he can't survive without support than how is he strong.
It is well said, " Behind every successful man there is a Women".
Also behind every successful women there is a man but in a negative way.

The game of name - Pleasing

In the Marathon of Name, the torch of Pleasing is in the Hand.
A person, always trying to please eveybody around,
Try to be great by sacrificing his own happiness for the well being of other (Ridiculous),
Try to be superior by caring for other(Foolishness),
Try to be weight lifter by shouldering the burden of others(Rubbish).
But pleasing is like Whitewashing a house.
Untill you keep doing things what others like, people forget how much you sacrifice for them.
Like after a while there is a layer of dust settled at the wall, which again needs white washing.
It means in order to please others keep on putting the oil of sacrifices in the torch of Pleasing.
But in this Marathon, nobody ever won, sooner or later,
The participant is left tired in the Midway,
In complete darkness because the oil of the torch is exhausted completely,
In the utter suffering of loneliness and meanness of the peoples,
And the most amazing fact is that, peoples are those whom a person thinks are my whole world
At the end, a person combeled to think, "why I did all that?"
I read somewhere " It is good to earn a bad name and live a good life than earn a good name and live a Bad life"
True na!!!

Naam - Ek Pehchan ya???????

Some one said , नाम में क्या रखा है?

And instantly the thought came to my mind is, "Everything".

Do you ever thought what is the impact of name in someone's personality and Life?

I think like few things which are decided by God and not we, name is also one among that.

Slowly person's thinking, behavior, character bear the characterstics of it name.

"NAME" - which create an instant picture of a person in stranger's mind.

A picture which is very much inspired by the characterstics of the name of the person.

At times it is positive and at times negative.

It help to give person, a beginning.

And good beginning leads to work half done.

The whole run in the world is for name sake.

A person can fulfill his necessity easily but, he keep on running to establish his name in the society.

This marathon race does not ends with the establishment of the name.

The next stage is to add fame with the name.

And then to maintain it to the height.

The passion for the fame make a man blind and deaf, that neither he can see the pain nor listen to the heart of those who are supporting him in this endless marathon race.

Sometimes I wonder - WHY? THIS ENDLESS AND HOPELESS MARATHON.

Why a person cant stop bothering about his name and society, instead think about the happiness of the near and dear one. Don't ask them to sacrifice their wishes for name sake.

Imagine - How beautiful this world will be without the NAME factor.

But it can't happen because NAME is EVERYHTING

Daughter a things associated with Name and Fame?

In Indian society, we always watch the same scene as in the serial -"12/24 Karol Bagh"

Daughter ready to sacrifice , actually not ready instead she scarifies her feelings, emotions and happiness for the sake of family, which she thinks is her duty because they gave birth to her, bring her up and so she owe them, Do the boy thinks the same?

Since childhood, Parents put in her mind that,

" WE LOVE YOU SO MUCH"(शायद सच)

You are the replica of godess (most of the case "Laxmi"- यहाँ भी स्वार्थ!!!)

Its only your happiness which we are concerned about and nothing else is important in our life. (Really?)

But we request you one thing, please never do any such thing which will be a dark spot in our name and fame. (अब आया ऊँठ पहाड़ के नीचे)
Otherwise we will die. ( अहसानों के नीचे दब गयी बेचारी)

If anything happen which is against families name and fame, What about your younger brother and sister future? (emotional Blackmailing)

And it really works. The daughter shoulder the burden of carrying name and fame of the family.

But I never understood, whether parents are worried about their daughters Life and Happiness or their prestige. Because if they care for daughters wishes then never ask her to give sacrifices, and if they concern about their prestige ask them to sacrifice their daughter's life then where is the LOVE?

GOD!!! What parents really want?

May be the return to give life her life, bringing her up, educating her and then marrying her.

There is one more question in my mind, If everything is given by them, what about the Karma chakra which says everyone gets everything because of its own fate?

I think parents must think once again what they have given to their daughter and in return what they are asking for, at the same time compare it with a boy' s thinking and what they put in his mind.