Best Friend

Friendship, the most beautiful relationship between two person,

without the competition of give and take.

Without the feeling of mine,

Without the smell of meanness,

Without the touch of shrewdness.

Without the intention of return.

Everybody wants, there should be a person in Life,

Whose name comes first in the mind when u need someone.

Who is the person you can rely blindly

Whom you feel is the one who understand your feelings as they are,

Who have faith on you, that you are right,

Who won't question your intention because he know you well,

In front of whom you won't hesitate to speak your heart.

With whom you want to share each and every thing happened be it happiness or sorrow.

Who believe in you.

A person who raise his hand for help without thinking for a moment that what will be the result

When you are in a Quagmire(दलदल), he will give his hand for help knowing that my hand will get dirty and my cloths will get spotted with the mud. Even this quagmire can take him in it.

The quagmire of situations, emotions and conditions, which is worse than the quagmire of sand.

because the quagmire of sand will take life in one instance but this one will won't let the person die but keep on suffer.

The only person who can do this is the BEST FRIEND.

Think do you have such person in Life???

Thank God I have One.

Treasure of Inspiration pass on

After I cleared First level of my studied, I was 18.

My achievement was not a very great one, but it was after great difficulties, because I belong to a orthodox joint family where girls are associated more with name and fame than considering them as living being. So my victory was great,

Then there was a meeting of Lions club , where they asked me how I managed to do that?

I asked my father to answer because he was the one who pass on the treasure of words and inspiration to me which was given to him by my grandfather, when he was pursuing his exam. He was having tears in his eyes .

He felt, in any case I will not be through this exam. I thought the same when I was preparing for my exams. My father wrote me a letter which say -

Dear,

We bless you for your success,

you know I was in same trauma when I was with my traning as you are now. When people love us so much and rely on us, so much, we feel the fear of putting them down. We feel can we will prove them correct? But this is the moment where you have to work hard and not think about the result. Give your 100% and for rest, god is there. This is what my father said to me when I was in my tranning because I felt I can't do it.

Just put your efforts and forget the result, even if you will flunck you will taste the failure which will enhance the taste of success and the urge to achieve it. Thus you are at no loss, only profit.

Both the sides of the coin, you are the winner.

And I know you will win.

With love

Your father

And believe I WON.

Relationship - Marriage

"Marriage or relationship is a dance in which two lives go with the rhythm in full swing, holding each other with passion, caring each other with love. Unknowingly matching the foot steps of each other, without hurting. So much engrosed in each other that the rest of the world get stagnant for them"

Wow!!! Marriage is so beautiful with Love

Love and Marriage.

When they compliment each other, Life is as fresh as the morning dew.

When both of them walk hand in hand they get unite and become the "great wall" which stand still and strong infront of the world, All the problems and difficulties get tired of them and step back with faliur.

Together they are so strong and elastic. Can expand, shrink, hard, soft, rough and velvety, everything.

Every couple, about to enter into this relationship or those who are new in it think like this.

Wait a minute, but what is the reality?????

Is it that beautiful as the un experienced persons think ???

The answer is simple "No".

Marriage is not only a sweet dish, instead a complete meal,

Where there are so many dishes like so many people to affect the couple's life,

With so many tastes like so many situations to test with,

With so many pickles and chutneys like feelings and emotions to enhance its flavors.

Love is dream land which talks only about two people in Love.

Where as, Marriage is the Land of reality which say Love is not everything, it is a basic ingredient of the dish of LIFE, It need the help of others flavors also, like

Trust,

Companionship,

Friendship,

Caring ,

Importance,

Support,

Mutual understanding,

Help

And one of the most important thing is keeping the ego out of it (actually here roots of the problem lies)

Trust me!!!

Koshish means Keep Trying

Can u define what is KOSHISH (कोशिश) ?

Many people say there is nothing like trying, either you can do it or not.

If u want to do it, you can do it, otherwise Koshish is just an excuse.

This comment really made me think

Is koshish only a philosophy? How?

I think "Koshish" is a process to achieve a goal which is over and above a person's "Ability and Power"

Because, there lies a question, whether we can do it or not?

When there is fear that we can not do it, there comes the philosophy of "trying" before giving up.

कोशिश एक प्रयत्न है वो करने का जो हमारी शक्ति और समर्थ से परे है,

कोशिश एक डोर है उम्मीद और नउमीदी के बीच में,

कोशिश एक आशा है कामयाबी और नाकामयाबी के बीच में,

कोशिश, हिम्मत है निराशा को आशा में बदलने की |

A middle class Indian can well define "Koshish"

Because, foundation of a Middle class family lies in Keep trying to achieve what is out of their league .

Who fight every day for their basic requirements and still hope for a better tomorrow and keep trying to work for it.

Actually koshish is a process to increase our Ability and Power towards our Goal.

Once we achieve our goal then again the goal shifts itself to a higher degree,

Where again you need to work to increase your strength and stamina.

Think of a runner up in a 1000 mt. race who lost with just a few seconds.

Does it mean he hadn't put his effort to it , if no then what is the reason of his failure?

How one will console him? Keep trying, don't lose hope, next time you will win,

And he will stand up with new hope and work hard to increase his stamina for another few seconds,

Thus his journey from this race to next race carried by KOSHISH means keep trying.

I believe that every thing in this world lies in Hope and Keep trying.

If Koshish will not be there then every body will jump into a decision, " I can do it or I can't do it"

There will be no rewards for Hard work, Honesty, sufferings to achieve etc. and achievements will not be important as they are with the philosophy of Koshish.

Imagine the world without Koshish, there will be,

No hardwork,

No sufferings to achieve,

No importance of Achievements,

No faliure ,

No Learnings,

Thus no refinement of skills.

Which leads to no improvements,

And the world will get stagnant.

Replica of a Lotus

Lotus - a beautiful flower , whose habitat is mud and water, it grow in it, flourish in it. But still untouched by them. Don't allow single drop of them to stick on it.

Even the sweet fragnances of the rich Pink flower have no smell of Mud and water.

I feel my angel is like, "Replica of a Lotus"

Smiling with the freshness of morning dew,

Standing proudly as winner on the shoulders of the world which is like "MUD" which Smells bad, Looks bad, One who get into it will be pulled in by all the evils, who have control of it.

My Angel, looking down with giggle at the World saying -

"You have made everybody as bad as you are, but look at me, I took birth between you, but u can not even touch me."

My freshness, innocence and selfless love is like drop of Elixir (अमृत) of life to those who are

So tired of Life,

Lost hope of justice,

Unaware of the new birth of the rays of goodness.

This world is a beautiful place, trust me!

Always a single ray of hope have the power of shattering the darkness of shrewdness and selfishness .

So, don't lose hope.

I am within you, Look at me.

When I look at her, all my worries run away, and I feel that a my heart whisper in my ears,

Wow! She is so pure,

So gentle,

The velvety touch,

The sparkling eyes,

The smiling lips,

Ah! It seems she is holding your hand and taking you for a walk on the clouds in her country.

She says in her wordless speech,

Mom! Why are u looking at me surprisingly?

I am a part of you, came back, so you live you childhood once again in me,

I am taking you on the tour, how you were in your childhood,

I came in your world, so that you should not be lost in this mud,

Look at me, "I AM YOUR RAY OF HOPE"

Kagaz aur Kalam - Best friends

There are millions and millions of books, literature and vedas. They take us to the glorious past and astonishing future in imagination with there words.

What inspire a person to write something?

What make a person to pick a pen and paint the picture in imagination with there powerful words?

"WORDS" the best way to express. Everybody can not Paint. But everybody can write Like I do.

I think in everybody's life there is something which is inspiring, which makes him think and think, When these thoughts take control over him, the person starts putting things on words. To relieve oneself from the burden of thinking.

Actually, I feel that way.

I write,

When I get extremely happy,

When I get extremely sad,

When I am proud of being a mother,

When I get irritated,

When I get sarcastic, that I know, if I will not relieve my self, I will hurt someone.

When there is fight of thoughts in my mind, Mind becomes the land of war. And the two forces are Positive thoughts and negative thoughts. Mind which work with a steady speed, all of a sudden starts running like a speed racer car. To gain lost control over it I put my thoughts in words.

Why so? Why only write and not speak?

Because when u speak u need a patient listener, who understand your thoughts and feelings the same way as they are in your heart, who have faith in you. But this is impossible. At that moment, only pen and paper posses all the qualities of best friends

A best friend, who understand what is bothering you,

Who listen to you and not question you,

Who understands you better that you do your self

Who take all your worries and let you take sound sleep and restful days,

Who keep all your secrets in it and never utter a word.

Isn't Kagaz and Kalam are the best friends of everybody.

Is it Love?

Everybody face this question in life. Some at early age in surprising way and some at later in a Complaning way.

Is it Love? Or Am I in Love?

What can be the answer for this question?

So amazed na, there are only questions but what about the answer? Who can answer this?

At a moment of time a person feel that this person will stand by my side for all up and down but……?

It means the love is over?

Or means the expectations were too high?

Or the feeling was infratuation which was mistaken as Love?

At times love use to be at first sight. When a person so impressed by the appearance of other , the positive energy of that person attracts other, that person perfectly fits on the image of the beloved. Love is all around. But this love is actually a pure feeling or just attraction or infratuation?

There is a different kind of love, in which a person does not get attracted by the appearance but by the qualities, goodness, thoughts and acts. This is a mature love. Love which is not blind but have wide eyes open. So very taken away by the thoughts of that person. Want to live with that person and die with him.

But do love stands forever?

I heard people saying, I am not in love anymore. How this can happen? If Love can be changed with the requirements and willingness of a person then it is trade as well. Where is the purity?

Instead, I feel in today's world, when a person feels that, this person can keep me happy for my whole life," It is LOVE",

And when one feels that, I can't be happy anymore, Love is gone. Love had changed its definition with the passage of time.

But the truth is, Love is a feeling that’s it.

A feeling without any expectation, requirement, free from all the mean thoughts.

And when there are questions of return, then one should revalue, Is It Love?

May be, Answer of the questions lies in one's heart only.