BEAUTY!!! WHAT IS IT?

As a grown up it is so easy to define.
But still to everybody it has different meaning.
some people think good looks is beauty,
for some beauty is fair color and long hairs,
for some beauty is being attractive even without sharp features or fair color,
for some, it is attitude.

But what a kid think of a beauty?

When i was a kid, and some one claim, she is beautiful.
I use to stare that girl and try to find out, what is beauty?
she also have two eyea, one nose, two ears etc.
What is so diffrent, to be beautiful?
i use to ask everybody what does beautiful means.

even now some times i dont understand, What does beauty mean to a particular person.

But i think it is more depend on liking to someone, their nature, their behavior to others, their attitude to carry themselves etc.
Does good looks, fair color and slim figure is beauty?

Oh god!!!!!!!!!

Still it is difficult to answer.

Can anyone help me????????

Are You Newly Engaged?

Surprised? Why this lady always have Quesiton?

Because Life is a search for answer of Questions, So many questions.

So, here comes the next.

Actually right now there are newly engaged couples around me.

Living in the clouds of dreams,

So happy,

So much in Love,

It seems as if made for each other,

Can see only good things.

As if , were waiting for so many births to meet each other.

LOVE IS ON AIR

Have you ever thought, why the heart felt that way after engagement?

The Heart, which always waiting for true love, all of sudden feel like the search is over, as if the picture of the beloved is complete now.

Heart, which is like a "wild horse", unable to control, free, strong, want to wander as per his own will, whom more you want to control, more it will rebel.

Heart, whose nature is rebeltion, When there use to be restriction, that time also it can't be controlled, then, think what happen when the wild horse is free.

God!!!

It will get crazzzzy with happiness,

Run in any direction without restriction,

Will talk with air and clouds, unable to land on Earth.

Keep on running till unable to give sufficient air to the lungs.

It is same with the Heart.

But hold on!

Don't let it run till its last breath, otherwise Life and marriage will lose its charm.

Let it pick up speed, but with steadiness, so the horse can run long race and not a short one.

Keep mind open with heart because heart won't have mind.

ALL THE BEST.

Best Friend

Friendship, the most beautiful relationship between two person,

without the competition of give and take.

Without the feeling of mine,

Without the smell of meanness,

Without the touch of shrewdness.

Without the intention of return.

Everybody wants, there should be a person in Life,

Whose name comes first in the mind when u need someone.

Who is the person you can rely blindly

Whom you feel is the one who understand your feelings as they are,

Who have faith on you, that you are right,

Who won't question your intention because he know you well,

In front of whom you won't hesitate to speak your heart.

With whom you want to share each and every thing happened be it happiness or sorrow.

Who believe in you.

A person who raise his hand for help without thinking for a moment that what will be the result

When you are in a Quagmire(दलदल), he will give his hand for help knowing that my hand will get dirty and my cloths will get spotted with the mud. Even this quagmire can take him in it.

The quagmire of situations, emotions and conditions, which is worse than the quagmire of sand.

because the quagmire of sand will take life in one instance but this one will won't let the person die but keep on suffer.

The only person who can do this is the BEST FRIEND.

Think do you have such person in Life???

Thank God I have One.

Relationship - Marriage

"Marriage or relationship is a dance in which two lives go with the rhythm in full swing, holding each other with passion, caring each other with love. Unknowingly matching the foot steps of each other, without hurting. So much engrosed in each other that the rest of the world get stagnant for them"

Wow!!! Marriage is so beautiful with Love

Love and Marriage.

When they compliment each other, Life is as fresh as the morning dew.

When both of them walk hand in hand they get unite and become the "great wall" which stand still and strong infront of the world, All the problems and difficulties get tired of them and step back with faliur.

Together they are so strong and elastic. Can expand, shrink, hard, soft, rough and velvety, everything.

Every couple, about to enter into this relationship or those who are new in it think like this.

Wait a minute, but what is the reality?????

Is it that beautiful as the un experienced persons think ???

The answer is simple "No".

Marriage is not only a sweet dish, instead a complete meal,

Where there are so many dishes like so many people to affect the couple's life,

With so many tastes like so many situations to test with,

With so many pickles and chutneys like feelings and emotions to enhance its flavors.

Love is dream land which talks only about two people in Love.

Where as, Marriage is the Land of reality which say Love is not everything, it is a basic ingredient of the dish of LIFE, It need the help of others flavors also, like

Trust,

Companionship,

Friendship,

Caring ,

Importance,

Support,

Mutual understanding,

Help

And one of the most important thing is keeping the ego out of it (actually here roots of the problem lies)

Trust me!!!

Is it Love?

Everybody face this question in life. Some at early age in surprising way and some at later in a Complaning way.

Is it Love? Or Am I in Love?

What can be the answer for this question?

So amazed na, there are only questions but what about the answer? Who can answer this?

At a moment of time a person feel that this person will stand by my side for all up and down but……?

It means the love is over?

Or means the expectations were too high?

Or the feeling was infratuation which was mistaken as Love?

At times love use to be at first sight. When a person so impressed by the appearance of other , the positive energy of that person attracts other, that person perfectly fits on the image of the beloved. Love is all around. But this love is actually a pure feeling or just attraction or infratuation?

There is a different kind of love, in which a person does not get attracted by the appearance but by the qualities, goodness, thoughts and acts. This is a mature love. Love which is not blind but have wide eyes open. So very taken away by the thoughts of that person. Want to live with that person and die with him.

But do love stands forever?

I heard people saying, I am not in love anymore. How this can happen? If Love can be changed with the requirements and willingness of a person then it is trade as well. Where is the purity?

Instead, I feel in today's world, when a person feels that, this person can keep me happy for my whole life," It is LOVE",

And when one feels that, I can't be happy anymore, Love is gone. Love had changed its definition with the passage of time.

But the truth is, Love is a feeling that’s it.

A feeling without any expectation, requirement, free from all the mean thoughts.

And when there are questions of return, then one should revalue, Is It Love?

May be, Answer of the questions lies in one's heart only.

What is Love

What is Love?


I always wonder what is the meaning of love for a person? Basically, it differs from person to person as per their experience in life and age.
But I think love is not one feeling but a cluster of feelings for someone. That,
1. When one feel attracted to some one for some reason,
2. When one feels that, time flew away with that person,
3. When one feels that, Life will be easy with that person,
4. When one feels that, your heart is as light as a ballon to go high in the company of that person,
5. When one feels that, all worries, tensions, sadness are unknowingly taken away by that person,
6. When one feels that, If, I will jump from the height and that person will not let me fall down and break my bones,
7. When one feels that, I can really on that person for whole of my life,
8. When one feels that, only that person can keep my heart happy even in odd times.
9. When that person makes you feel proud.

Why so many criteria? But, lets think once more about the answer of this:
1. A pretty damsel or a handsome hunk you think about,
2. Best Friend
3. A counselor
4. Motivator
5. Parents
6. Teacher
7. Family
8. Spouse
9. Kids

What when u get all the feelings for one person?
Believe me its real love.
And, the conclusion is that you love all the 9 important persons of your life.
So be in LOVE for ever.